13th March 2007, 12:19 AM
I agree with lazy's posts to an extent - a huge amount of women in my personal experience act exactly the way in which he described. Be it with women that I've been involved with or ones I've observed - I know what you're talking about, even if it's impossible for me to understand according to your criteria (I've only been out of high school for 8 months).
All women have the ability to cheat and lie and be hurtful. I've had more than a few female friends who've cheated on their boyfriends for no other reason aside from the fact that they are apparently manipulative whores, and then lied about it. Some of the best people I've met in my entire life have had their entire world turned upside down because a girl they were with constantly fucked with them. How many relationships have you seen follow this pattern?
Guy meets Girl
Guy likes Girl
Girl does not like Guy
Girl likes OtherGuy
OtherGuy does not like Girl
Girl dates Guy on rebound
Guy falls in love
Girl does not fall in love; says she does anyways
Girl still has feelings for OtherGuy, fucks him
Girl continues to date Guy while continually being dishonest to him
Girl dumps Guy for retarded reason; Guy is heartbroken
On the other hand though, I have come across just as many men who are disrespectful, lying, cheating bastards with little to no regard for a girl's feelings. In fact, I have been one of these people in the past so I know first-hand that men are just as capable of ruining someone's perspective of the opposite sex as women are. Admittedly though, my experiences with women have all been with ones twenty years and younger, with nothing even close to “serious” as lazy described it (maybe for high school and recently out-of-high-school standards they are - but I’ve come to the conclusion that high school relationships are about the stupidest things that anybody could enter). Whatever, I still have an idea as to what lazy is talking about, and I’m sure when I’m a bit older and wiser I’ll still be seeing the exact same things I’m seeing today.
All women have the ability to cheat and lie and be hurtful. I've had more than a few female friends who've cheated on their boyfriends for no other reason aside from the fact that they are apparently manipulative whores, and then lied about it. Some of the best people I've met in my entire life have had their entire world turned upside down because a girl they were with constantly fucked with them. How many relationships have you seen follow this pattern?
Guy meets Girl
Guy likes Girl
Girl does not like Guy
Girl likes OtherGuy
OtherGuy does not like Girl
Girl dates Guy on rebound
Guy falls in love
Girl does not fall in love; says she does anyways
Girl still has feelings for OtherGuy, fucks him
Girl continues to date Guy while continually being dishonest to him
Girl dumps Guy for retarded reason; Guy is heartbroken
On the other hand though, I have come across just as many men who are disrespectful, lying, cheating bastards with little to no regard for a girl's feelings. In fact, I have been one of these people in the past so I know first-hand that men are just as capable of ruining someone's perspective of the opposite sex as women are. Admittedly though, my experiences with women have all been with ones twenty years and younger, with nothing even close to “serious” as lazy described it (maybe for high school and recently out-of-high-school standards they are - but I’ve come to the conclusion that high school relationships are about the stupidest things that anybody could enter). Whatever, I still have an idea as to what lazy is talking about, and I’m sure when I’m a bit older and wiser I’ll still be seeing the exact same things I’m seeing today.