7th April 2003, 6:19 AM
Quote:Originally posted by Darunia
Right...so back to topic, no one is born gay, but no one chooses to turn gay, it's...like a medical thing that transpires.
Assuming it's environmental, which it most likely is, then one might say Gays aren't born, they're made.
The biology/genetic factor is pretty much nonexistent. Choice... some make the choice outright, no doubt about it. It's probably most correct to say that most gays, those that "had a feeling they were gay and finally realized it" were products of environment. Choice and environment are pretty close, the environment influences choices you are making but not consciously. No, not everyone decides to themselves "I'm okay with being gay, so I'll do it", but everyone who is gay chooses to be, whether they realize it or not. Is that wrong? People make many decisions that they don't realize until later. For instance, getting pregnant. A woman can say "I didn't choose to get pregnant", as that was not her intention, but she did choose to have sex, and sex often leads to pregnancy. If she chose to have sex, and she got pregnant, than the pregnancy was her choice too, even though she might not realize that.
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