How could you not see it as a choice? Do you go around having sex with other guys because you don't have a girlfriend? Can you answer me that?? If you're stuck in prison with no means of having sex with a member of the opposite sex, you masturbate. If that's not enough for you and you choose to have sex with a member of the same sex, you're gay! This is a very black and white issue, and I'm very surprised that some of you are actually trying to deny it.
Comparing this to eating just shows how poor your argument is. If you stop eating, you die. You could live your whole life without ever having sex.
I agree with some things you say, though. It is true that you can be gay just by being attracted to the same sex, and I do not think that homosexuals are "evil" or any of that nonsense. But if you willingly have sex with someone of the same sex, you are gay, or bi-sexual. There has to be some sort of attraction there if you're having sex with that person.
Comparing this to eating just shows how poor your argument is. If you stop eating, you die. You could live your whole life without ever having sex.
I agree with some things you say, though. It is true that you can be gay just by being attracted to the same sex, and I do not think that homosexuals are "evil" or any of that nonsense. But if you willingly have sex with someone of the same sex, you are gay, or bi-sexual. There has to be some sort of attraction there if you're having sex with that person.