Cheating in a Relationship

[Geno]

The first few weeks after we broke up I was in a deep depression, and that's saying a lot coming from me, because I usually get over things very quickly. I have several good friends to thank for helping me through that. Some people can handle depression, I couldn't. That kind was completely new to me. I have good friends.

Yeah, my breakup was hard to deal with too, as we had been getting very serious. The first week, we had broken up peacefully and so we were both okay with it. The next week, it suddenly hit me that it was over and that everything we had built up towards for years just kinda crumbled, and that put me into a depression, but I too had friends that helped me through it. Now I kinda regret ever being depressed. My biggest regret was when I snapped at her during my depression. It was a peaceful breakup and I had to ruin any post-relationship friendship that we could've had by going absolutely psychotic. It was about seven months before she talked to me again, but I think our discussion then helped to bury some old hatchets and, while we still don't talk to each other very often, at least now we're not afraid to talk to each other. She claims that she hasn't fully forgiven me though, and I can't say that I've fully forgiven her for all the things she did to me when we were still together, but at least we can behave like civilized human beings in each other's presence.