6th February 2003, 2:25 PM
I don't think anyone could say what arouses someone is by some instant choice; like if I suddenly decided geese were sexy. That's not how it works, I agree. But now we're talking nature versus nurture. Some of you are saying NATURE, that we're all wired with our sexuality.
But I disagree. Like Weltall was saying (and you all seemed to ignore) is that sexuality ISN'T a one-time decision, but that it's a gradual thing. Children aren't sexual beings for about eight years or so, but during that time they see a lot of things and make a lot of observations, whether they know it or not.
Psychology leans more that way, what with unconsious learning and everything. The mind wires itself constantly, even if the wiring slows down after childhood. Somebody else will make the point I'm trying to, so I'll just stop. Bye.
But I disagree. Like Weltall was saying (and you all seemed to ignore) is that sexuality ISN'T a one-time decision, but that it's a gradual thing. Children aren't sexual beings for about eight years or so, but during that time they see a lot of things and make a lot of observations, whether they know it or not.
Psychology leans more that way, what with unconsious learning and everything. The mind wires itself constantly, even if the wiring slows down after childhood. Somebody else will make the point I'm trying to, so I'll just stop. Bye.