19th September 2003, 3:11 PM
Quote:The quickest way to end an arguement is just to stop replying. You guys do know that, right?
... yes...
Look, OB1, if you REALLY want to continue to think of DJ in ways that just aren't the way she is go ahead... its far too much to ask for you to try to see DJ as she is, clearly. Its quite obvious why DJ never is serious with you... what would the point be? You'd never believe it anyway... so why should DJ bother? You would just effectively (sure you don't use the words but there is no other way to sensibly describe it) say DJ is lying again...
As for 'all those examples where DJ misled me and then didn't explain it was a joke until asked later', I bet that DJ honestly thought that everyone could tell they are jokes... she just assumes far too much about others being able to see her jokes. You take it as intentional lies and deception? I wouldn't, I think that in nearly every case that I can think of that it's almost certainly unintentional... except for the times DJ was just joking with you. :)