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to my old friends - lazyfatbum - 18th January 2007
as you may not know, my wife minka has left me. she told me she wants to have sex with other men and when i mentioned marraige counseling she called her dad and got on a plane. she's ignoring me completely, she wont take my calls or call me. her parents are even more immature, her mom hung up on me and her dad sent me an email stating that he will not talk to minka or help me get to holland or give a place to stay. i am at my end, she wont tell me if she wants me to come there or not. i am begging you tendocity to please help me get through to her.
her email is minka_angel@hotmail.com her phone number is 011 + 31 + 075-617-9682
i am dying without her, any help from you guys would be greatly appreciated.
we have a member from holland but he hasnt posted in ages, if anyone knows how to get a hold of him please let me know.
please help
to my old friends - A Black Falcon - 18th January 2007
You mentioned that a few times, hopefully you'll find a solution to the situation... :(
to my old friends - DMiller - 18th January 2007
I saw you mention that in another thread and was hoping you were kidding. I don't know if all of us calling and emailing her will help. How long has it been since she left?
to my old friends - etoven - 18th January 2007
Well I certainly no nothing about the situation, and am the last person to make an informed judgment. But from what I do know about the situation all of them sound, like people you could do with out.
Especially the parents who sound like real dicks. Just remember to think of your happiness in the long term as well. Just say the word and I'll have 1 million viral video's of her and her parents doing Clinton produced and ready to mail out! ;)
However, if your must have her back, I would be happy to email her and tell her how you saved my life, with your holy touch, in a burning hospital, where I was dyeing, and how you saved my sole because I was on death row for eating your parents, but you some how found it in your heart to forgive me.
Hay, maybe you should eat her parents?? ;)
to my old friends - lazyfatbum - 18th January 2007
an email, a call, eating her parents, whatever you guys can do would be a big help right now. we just have to wake her up and get her head out of her ass. Or her mom's ass.
to my old friends - EdenMaster - 18th January 2007
My condolences for the events, and my apologies for seeming uncaring when we spoke some time ago. I hope the email that I have sent to Minka helps in some way:
Quote:My words may be of little value to you but I implore you to heed them, if not, at least hear what I have to say.
In case you haven't figured out, it's me, EdenMaster, from TendoCity, and Sean has told us of the unhappy dealings between you two. I'm not a marraige counselor, nor am I an expert on anything relating to matters such as this, but I do know when a friend is in need. Right now I have such a friend, and what he needs is your voice. Your words. Anything.
I won't pretend to know what you are going through, what your intentions are, or even why you left in the first place. All that is immaterial, it truly is. The only thing that matters is that Sean, a fellow human being, the man you used to love, is in such excruciating pain right now that my words can do it no justice. This is imperitive: you need to talk to him. I fear what he may do if you don't do so.
Perhaps what I'm saying means nothing to you. This, I understand. I don't expect you to listen to me because, honestly, you know who's side I'm on.
But if Sean were to do something drastic, something...irreversable, do you think you could live with it? Knowing what happened because of you?
Please, I beg you in Sean's stead, give him the common decency of a little closure. You owe it to him, and he deserves nothing less.
I hope I've been of help, I pray you reconsider your decision to ignore him.
Thank you for reading.
Brian Butoryak
A.K.A. EdenMaster
to my old friends - Sacred Jellybean - 19th January 2007
I'm sorry for what she's done to you, Sean. It's a terrible twist of fate, and my condolences go out to you as well. I'll write her an e-mail right now to help dissuade her from hurting you so horribly. There's only so much we can do to help, but with any fortune, this small glimmer will affect her in some way, if however small. We'll do all we can to help you through this hard time, because we care about you. We're here for you, man. If you want to talk, shoot me a message on MSN. My friends list seems to have deleted you all (could everyone please re-post their MSN e-mail, btw?), so I'm disconnected.
I know how much she meant to you. :( I'll post my e-mail once I have it completely written out.
to my old friends - DMiller - 19th January 2007
Well, EM's email was pretty good so I may just have to go with eating her parents. Anyway, make sure you post here and talk to us online so we can help you get through this.
to my old friends - DorkKing - 20th January 2007
Quote:an email, a call, eating her parents, whatever you guys can do would be a big help right now. we just have to wake her up and get her head out of her ass. Or her mom's ass.
Get canibalism legalised and maybe I will concider it...
Well you have my sympathies dude , As they say more fishes in the sea.
to my old friends - Sacred Jellybean - 31st January 2007
Any luck at all, lazy? Is she still snubbing you?
to my old friends - EdenMaster - 31st January 2007
I never did get a response. Frankly, I didn't expect to.
Sorry, lazy.
to my old friends - lazyfatbum - 2nd February 2007
Thank you for sending that, she didnt mention it but i'm sure she read it.
She's completely ignoring me now, not even getting hateful emails anymore.
all I can do is wait.
In other news, whoever has a myspace needs to add me and talk shit about my lame pics and blogs. I'm bored as all hell.
to my old friends - Dark Jaguar - 2nd February 2007
I know nothing of the details of this, so any action on my part would be foolish. No details on why she left or anything, so I don't know if she has every reason to go or if she is being petty.
Not my place to step in. She knows how to get ahold of you. You've done what you can, just let it be for now.
to my old friends - DMiller - 2nd February 2007
lazyfatbum Wrote:In other news, whoever has a myspace needs to add me and talk shit about my lame pics and blogs. I'm bored as all hell.
Get on Facebook and you've got something. GR and I are both on it. I have a MySpace, but I never use it.
to my old friends - lazyfatbum - 2nd February 2007
DJ/ You're right, but that's not the point of me posting this thread.
Miller/ This facebook you speak of - I disect its innards to tally an opinion, wot. Rubber pants and basket weaving, jolly good.
edit - I checked it out, it's myspace, but less people. Why you like it better?
to my old friends - Dark Jaguar - 2nd February 2007
If it's basically to vent, consider me the cap.
to my old friends - DMiller - 2nd February 2007
lazyfatbum Wrote:edit - I checked it out, it's myspace, but less people. Why you like it better?
I like it because people can't edit their pages so you don't get headaches from looking at pages with three dozen animated gifs and scrolling marquees all over the place. I also like that people can't see your page if they aren't your friend or aren't in your network. I never use my myspace but I still get a message every week about some idiot who wants me to check out his band.
to my old friends - lazyfatbum - 2nd February 2007
DJ/ i reccomend a book to you, it's called "How to Make Friends" and when you're done reading that, read a good book on grasping comprehension because at no point did anyone, including myself, vent or take anger out on anyone, except right now congratulations; you're an asshole. :D
Miller/ The horrible use of color and html make me WANT to talk to the people because it shows a little something I like to call intent to cause harm I mean personality.
to my old friends - Dark Jaguar - 2nd February 2007
???
I thought this thread was about like... venting about your situation. Calm down and think about it rationally.
to my old friends - EdenMaster - 3rd February 2007
The point, DJ, was to get help and support from his friends.
It might be tough for him to "calm down" considering his situation.
Consider picking up some emotions when you go to get that book too :D.
to my old friends - Great Rumbler - 3rd February 2007
HE'S A ROBOT!!!
to my old friends - A Black Falcon - 3rd February 2007
Wait, someone other than me is a robot this time? Huh... :)
to my old friends - EdenMaster - 3rd February 2007
You're right, someone has managed to show even less emotion than A Bland Falcon!
to my old friends - DMiller - 3rd February 2007
Great Rumbler Wrote:HE'S A ROBOT!!!
I miss Arrested Development. I've started looking for a place of my own now, and it was funny how many things reminded me of that show. Each model home had some sort of "theme" to it to indicate the imaginary person who lives in that home. One house had a lot of medical dictionaries around to indicate a doctor lived there while one had a book on birds and a bird cage. I was waiting for the house with a laptop open to a porn site and copies of Playboy scattered about.
to my old friends - Dark Jaguar - 4th February 2007
Okay, emotions activated.
Funky funny playground! Yay!
...wrong emotion?
Anyway, I just figured he had enough shoulders to lean on so I attempted an experiment. What would occur if he was presented with nothing but bland statements of my possible courses of action? I had hoped to take his mind off his situation.
I succeeded, and it is interesting to say the least.
Well, THAT odd series of statements over with, all I can say is this will be tough and all that stereotypical stuff. I really can't add anything. The only thing I can add is that forcing anything further won't aid your situation, as noted above. You pretty much know all that already. Um, what else... don't terminate your life support?
Anyway, emotions need heart right? I think I found one.
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to my old friends - A Black Falcon - 4th February 2007
Quote:Well, THAT odd series of statements over with, all I can say is this will be tough and all that stereotypical stuff. I really can't add anything.
This is true, certainly... there isn't that much you can say (that actually means anything)... I guess the point is just to say anything, because it's nice.
... "doing something because you're societally expected to"? Hmm, those are not things I usually do very well... whatever. :)
to my old friends - Smoke - 5th February 2007
Wow. That's was my first reaction. From what you've told me I know you love her. I hope things can work out so that you're happy.
BTW, can I get a link to your Myspace?